Justing

 I follow this person on Instagram who has fantastic "word of the day" series and the one from last Wednesday was particularly striking for me:

JUSTING

(juhs-ting) π—»π—Όπ˜‚π—»: The habit of telling yourself that just one change could solve all of your problems, which leaves you feeling perpetually on the cusp of a better life, hanging around the top of the slide waiting for one little push.

"Resist the stagnant trap of Justing where dreams linger in the "if only".  And instead let each small step you take towards your goal be the catalyst and momentum for the change you wish to see. A reminder that true transformation is born from YOUR courage and determination, not waiting for the perfect moment."


I have been very guilty of Justing, and find it a hard habit to break.  But lately I've been trying to focus not on SINGLE things that will fix all my problems, but taking small steps towards my goals and celebrating them as progress.

I think that's one of the important things to think about when we talk about the I Ho Chuan requirements.  As a journey to mastery there's no one requirement that will make us masters, but the program as a whole is meant to be the foundation for us to gain mastery.  I know that I've gotten caught up in focusing on a select few requirements, or jumping from one to another like a squirrel with various piles of nuts.  

I shall ponder on this more....


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Song of the Day: Tides by G Voz

https://open.spotify.com/track/13s0Z1ptvE3fFA3gvPzjWV?si=8f39f9225b954937

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